Fail at dating
Have you ever been frustrated that a man didn’t open the door? Women keep an internal scorecard of chivalry for men but often times men do not know the rule book by which they are playing. It’s unfair to mark a man down far on your scorecard if he doesn’t know what your expectations.
Technology has impacted our lives in irreversible ways.
You waited and waited and waited, but the messages you received were depressing at best.
So, you logged in less frequently, and you received fewer messages.
He wanted to be with her but couldn’t afford to take the trips that she wanted to take and she was afraid to set a bad precedent by paying for him to go with her. She wasn’t willing to adjust her lifestyle to let a great guy in.
Many of my clients are not top 1% earners but they create similar boundaries by being unwilling to date someone outside of their immediate geographic area, without their same level of education, or who doesn’t have kids.
The list goes on but the issue remains the same – women over 40 are staying single because they have lived their life a certain way for so long that they cannot adapt to another person being in it. Images of princesses being swept off their feet by rich, kind prince charmings has been clockwork oranged into our pupils for decades.
You are accustomed to a certain lifestyle and you should not have to change that for a man.
When you train your brain to be biased towards seeing a particular outcome that will become your reality.
Therefore, the first step is to begin retraining the brain to see something different.
He in no way wanted to leech off her income but she made it very difficult for him to keep up with her.
She loved to travel and stay at 5 star resorts and dreamed of being able to make this trip with the man she loved rather than with girlfriends or alone.